Micromanagement Kills Confidence—

This spring has been full of firsts for me—coaching not just one but two soccer teams. (Even coaching one would have been a first!)

I volunteered to coach my daughter’s U8 soccer team, and then I was volun-told to coach my son’s U6 team because they didn’t have a coach.

It has been a fun experience, full of growth and learning—not just about coaching, but about my own children and how we navigate something new together.

At my son’s first practice (he's four), he came out sprinting, fearless, and excited. The energy was there; my job was just to direct it. But then, in a full-out sprint, he tripped over the ball and landed hard on his knee. It hurt—just watching it hurt. He got up, limped around, and eventually rejoined practice.

Since then, we’ve had four games and several practices. The excitement is still there, but I can tell he’s hesitant. He doesn’t run as fast. He’s afraid of getting hurt again.

As a dad and a coach, I ask myself: How do you help someone navigate an understandable setback? The answer? Give them time. Support them. Help them rebuild confidence—step by step.

At this age, nothing is competitive. It’s all about fun and learning. So, we cheer him on, encourage him, and build him back up.

But this situation isn’t just about soccer—it’s a lot like setbacks in sales or leadership. Sometimes, our confidence takes a hit. Whether it’s a micromanaging boss or constant rejection of our ideas, it’s easy to hesitate, to hold back, to fear another failure.

The key is the same: support, patience, and a steady rebuild. Confidence isn’t lost forever—it just needs a little time and encouragement to return.

Micromanagement Kills Confidence—Great Leaders Build It

Imagine a young manager stepping into a leadership role for the first time. Full of energy, eager to make an impact, they’re ready to take on the world. But then, the inevitable happens—they make a big mistake. Maybe they mishandle a team conflict, miscommunicate a strategy, or miss the mark on an important project. Confidence shaken, they look to their own manager for guidance, hoping for support to help them navigate the setback.

But instead of encouragement, they get micromanagement. Every decision is second-guessed, every move scrutinized. What was once excitement and initiative now turns into hesitation and self-doubt. Rather than learning from their mistake and growing into the role, they become paralyzed by the fear of getting it wrong again. The micromanaging manager, intending to “fix” the situation, ends up stifling the young leader’s growth, making them feel incapable rather than empowered.

The best leaders understand that setbacks are part of the journey. Instead of tightening control, they create space for learning, guide without hovering, and remind their team of their strengths. Confidence isn’t built through fear of failure—it’s built through trust, support, and the opportunity to course-correct.

Takeaway: Setbacks don’t define leaders—how they’re supported through them does. A great leader builds people up, while a micromanager holds them back. The difference? Trust.

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